Our warriors share their resilience…
The Women’s 5K Classic sent a survey to all the women who identified as surviving or thriving with breast and gynecologic cancers. We were overwhelmed by the awesome responses and please read what they shared and how they identify with being resilient warriors. This month, our focus is on the trait of independence. Here’s what they have to share.
I was diagnosed when pregnant and felt supported by my ob/gyn team from the start. Then breast health services had a connection to that team to help me navigate the system. I was very practical and yet voiced what it was that would work for me and baby and our family. I wanted to be well informed, understand my options, and knew emotionally I needed to understand the why so I could be comfortable with the reasons behind every step that was made. Our personal connections were made quickly during some of our worst days with the health care team. From there, the reach they had with connections from their professional history made the difference the first few days. I was very honest with my support system about what I actually needed and what I was comfortable accepting as help and love. I was equally straightforward with my health care team that I needed to ask a ton of questions to keep my anxiety at bay so I felt like an active part of the process. As we hit a complication during treatment, I wasn’t happy but I also realized that there was a list of things I could control but a much longer list of those I could not. I felt strongly that it was up to me to advocate for myself so I could be there as a mother for my two daughters.
Nicole Gasda
Optimism is vital along with adaptability.
Brenda Traa
You never realize till you face a life and death situation how strong and resilient you are. Everyone who experiences it has a new perspective on life.
Wendy Cagigas
Optimism – When first diagnosed, I was very optimistic that no matter what, I would be okay and I was right. It’s been 5 years since the diagnosis and subsequent surgeries. In many ways I am not the same person I was before cancer, but, I am learning to be the best me I can. My days are filled with more gratitude, understanding and patience. I knew I would be okay but did not know what okay would be or feel like. I’m happy to share, all is well. Thank you for asking.
Kim Sherr